His first date and his first Homecoming dance was all the same day! Long story short...Monday the week of he texted a stranger that he didn't know and who didn't go to his school to go to Homecoming with him because she was friends with Brady's date. She politely said no because she was going with all her girlfriends so if they didn't all have a date she better not go. After that I told Eli to skip HOCO this year and just go next year and we will plan it all out in advance and get a fun group, etc. Then Friday night right when the football game is starting he texted me saying this girl texted him and said if he still didn't have a date she could go with him and she already had a ticket! So after asking him 20 questions about what the plans were, we let him go! We wanted him to go and to have a good time - we just needed to make sure there was a plan in placce!
Saturday morning he is out mowing the Orchard to earn his money for the day and I am asking him what the plan were and they had a rough idea but nothing concrete. So I texted all the boys in his group and let them know they are welcome to come to our house after the dance for a firepit, smores bar, hot cocoa bar and treats! They instantly say yes! So then I help organize all their plans and then I have a couple of moms texting me asking me what the plans are so I created a group chat and let everyone know the plans for the rest of the day!
We now have solid plans for the day and everyone knows and we have about 20 minutes before Eli is going to get picked up to go grab his date to take them to Fat Cats for glow in the dark golf! He is stressed and wasn't sure what to wear, so we grabbed a few outfits and started frantically texting Emma to have her help us! She was at work so we couldn't wait for her final decision and we made the best we could and he left!
Jared and I texted him things to do on his date, knock on her door, introduce himself, tell her she looks nice, tell her you like her dress, open the door for her, etc.
Then I get the cutest text from him stressed about what to do at frys - see pic below! He is seriously the sweetest!
Then I meet them at the Silos and we take pictures. Again, first time dater - it's time to take the couples picture and he puts his arm around her shoulder like they are long time pals - I have to tell him in front of her that his arm goes around her waist - ha ha! He did that a couple of times!
They go to do dinner, then the dance, then they headed over to Brady's to change their clothes and then they came back here to hang out by the fire, they at some smores, hot chocolate and had some treats and put on a movie! Everyone left around midnight. They all seemed to have the best time!
The night before I asked Eli if Maggie his date was even cute - just giving him a hard time cause he has never met her before and he assured me he wouldn't take an ugly girl. Then Saturday night when he came in our room to say goodnight as he was walking out my bedroom, he stopped and turned around and said, "She was cute right mom?!" "Yes buddy - she was cute for sure!"
Then they both texted each other that night and apologized for being so shy and quiet - it was both of their's first dates and dances! He had the best night and I am so glad he went!









































